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Any good to great pickup artist knows that a simple touch can create a connection with a woman that can catapult your relationship into the stratosphere if there is true chemistry between the two of you. Whether you are simply trying to pick up a woman in a bar or if this is a girl that you've been working on for a while, the power of touch is a powerful tool to create attraction and bring the two of you closer. Likewise, it can be a big turn off for some women so this technique doesn't come without risks. But if you time not only your technique and the moment just right this is a killer method of fast-forwarding your relationship.
The Body - Touching different parts of a woman's body are acceptable and can create that connection that you're shooting for if you know when to touch them. For instance, even in a workplace setting it can be perfectly ok to touch a woman's arm or back to create that little bit of intimacy if there is attraction already present between you and the girl that you are hitting on. Of course, it should go without saying that by touching the wrong body part on the wrong woman when there is no attraction you could wind up in hot water if you're at work or wind up with a drink in your face if you are out at a bar or club.
Typically, incidental contact that could be mistaken as politeness or meaning nothing can create a huge surge in the attraction for a woman if you time it right. If there is already some flirting going on and you feel that the time is right you can try touching her on her arm, upper or lower back as you are talking with her or when you are close. Try to make your contact seem as innocent as possible such as touching her on her back as you walk by her. Just gently place your hand against her back. Or touch her arm as you are talking as you whisper something or as you're laughing or flirting.
For some women any contact is going to be a turn off but for most it will be a huge turn on. Just be careful where on her lower back you touch her because touching her butt before the time is right will come off as way too cocky and might kill any chances with her even if you touch her butt by accident.
The Face - This is a very advanced technique and it should not be the first time you touch her but touching her face or head can be a very powerful and seductive method for building a connection with a woman. Be careful though. Some women hate having their face touched, period. As always, gauge how receptive she is by touching her body first until it is reciprocated and then move on to this method when the time and situation is right.
So, how to do nonchalantly touch her face? We are not talking about stroking her cheek here. We are talking about flirting and how you can trigger some attraction in her in a subtle and unspoken way. One great way of doing that is to slowly and gently tuck her hair back behind her ear. This does require that you be a little advanced or at least have some guts to pull off effectively but it can be a very powerful method of turning a woman on.
Slowly and gently is the name of the game here so you don't appear to be attacking her and also to maximize the effectiveness of this technique. While talking with her make good eye contact and gently tuck her hair back behind her ear as you slowly run your finger along the outside of her ear. As you can imagine, this can knock the ball out of the ballpark when done correctly and at the right time.
As you can see, touching, whether in the beginning or in advanced stages of your flirting, can have a powerful effect upon the woman that you are hitting on. Whether you're just trying to pickup a woman or you are trying to create a stronger emotional bond with a girl you will find that touching is something that most women respond to very powerfully. Try it out and see for yourself.
You can find more tips and tricks in our Pickup Artist Articles. See how you can improve your odds of success with women whether you are an aspiring pickup artist or a hopeless romantic. Find out how the game is played and how you can easily turn women on with but a touch. Good Luck!
